Showing posts with label PinUp. Show all posts
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Monday, August 14, 2017

Digging DeeperVol 5: Elvira Makeup Palette


I recently purchased the Elvira, Mistress of the Dark 35th Anniversary Limited Edition palette from Lunatick Cosmetic Labs. Check out my review!

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Monday, October 17, 2016

The Memphettes and Our Mission

Monroe, D'elle & Comanche
The Memphettes social society was created to encourage women of all shapes, sizes, ages, and backgrounds to find their inner bombshell or vintage diva. Based out of Memphis (bet you didn't see that coming) we are a group of ladies in love with vintage, glamour and pinup. Founded by Comanche Rose, Monroe Noire and myself, because we noticed a need for a group that supported each other versus tearing one another down.

It has become an unfortunate fact that instead of banding together in all of the challenges the female gender already face, that women as a whole seem to be driven by a need to compete and compare. I will even go so far as to say women feel the need to occasionally undermine each other, and we can be downright vicious about it.

Unfortunately, age does not always seem to remedy this behavior. Age does not always equal maturity. I hate to admit it but I see this mentality present within many of the communities I am actively involved in. I seem to continually meet other women who feel it is necessary to destroy the self-confidence of others in order to make themselves feel better. This behavior I do not understand.
We strive to love & uplift each another

The Memphettes was created to combat negative behavior and toxicity within friendships. It is our mission to reach out to other women to help them realize their strengths while encouraging each other to find our inner & outer beauty. Above all else it is our mission to teach other women how to love differently, not only themselves but each other. Shaming of any sort is not allowed!

encourage each other to be vibrant
I would love to say this is an easy task or I am 100% faithful to my mission every day. Sadly, I am not. I am human and fall into the petty gossip and negative behavior. But I do have an awesome group of ladies to support me when I am being a bitch and pull me back up to where I believe I should stand. Support is our goal, and we all have to work toward it on a daily basis. The challenge becomes putting aside our individual inner battles and self-doubt so we can be there for one another. It's something we can all benefit from.


celebrate the love & beauty we
find in each unique member
Now if you are interested in knowing a little more about The Memphettes we are a group of like-minded ladies with an interest in vintage home decor & furnishings, clothing & accessories and sewing who meet regularly to brunch, participate in community events and fellowship together in celebration of all things vintage. In addition to hosting Memphette outings, we have either hosted or made guest appearances in and around her community including vintage fashion shows for Southern Junkers Vintage Market, guest judge at the Resurrection Rat Rod & Bike Show Pin Up Pageant, Pints for Pitbulls and Hard Rock Cafe Pinvasion. If you are in the Memphis area and would like to be part of our group please feel free to message me!

Attending the Memphis Downtown Holiday Parade

@ the Chuck Parr Pinup Art Gallery Exhibit

Pints for Pitbulls

Vintage Fashion Show

Some of our events are family friendly

Grease Sing A Long

Grease Sing A Long

Vintage Shopping & Brunch @ Fuel Cafe

@ the Resurrection Rat Rod & Bike Show

Witches Brunch

Hard Rock Cafe Pinvasion

Rockabilly Fashion Show

Tuesday, June 10, 2014

Best Laid Plans....

It seems more often than not even best laid plans go wrong and you have to improvise to make the best of it.  I know not every event is going to be a success, hell not every event is even going to take place and sometimes you just have to shoot from the hip. 

Case in point, this past weekend I was supposed to be the subject of an outdoor Steampunk photo-shoot at the historic Ornamental Metal Museum in downtown Memphis.  I was so looking forward to this shoot and I even spent a week or so prior hand building several new pieces to feature in it.  

Day One - Hair & make up done and looking good.  Wardrobe, props, and accessories in hand and off I go to meet the photographer on location.  After a half-hour of standing around being gawked at by visitors I realize, to my horror, that I am A DAY EARLY.  Yep, your calendar is only as accurate as the user.  Trying to be optimistic, I figure, hey, one more day to prep!! Wonderful.  I can clean up some last minute details add a few more bells and whistles!! 

Day Two, Hair & make up done and it looks GREAT!!!  Even better!!!  Wardrobe, props and accessories in hand again and I am on my way.  Half way there I notice the sky is starting to cloud over and the thunder starting to roll…urgh!!!  Hand built accessories with a lot of metal gears, leather and glue do not always work well in the rain.  As I arrive I am on the phone with the photographer who is now huddling under the gazebo with his equipment and I am stuck in the car.  After sitting for a bit we mutually decide the storm is not going to pass in a timely manner and it may be best to reschedule.  Clearly this one was not meant to be. 

 
 
OK I am officially bummed out….but my hair & make up look great!!

So now comes the improvisation.  A quick stop by my house removing all traces of Steampunk gears and swapping my black Victorian walking skirt, tapestry jacket and neck corset (yes it is a miserable as it sounds) for a black and red gothic / circus get up, I grab my personal photographer and off we go in search of a location. 

We went to a great location only to find we couldn't get in anymore due to a new locked gate. Still looking like the effort was for nothing. Finally we were able to find a great old cemetery in a neighborhood close to my house.  The overcast day offered perfect lighting and with some acceptance that I was going to get this dress wet, was able to produce some of my favorite images to date.


 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
What a save!
 
I am still planning on the Steampunk shoot as a matter of fact we are scheduled to reshoot later this month.  Keep your fingers crossed for good weather!

Tuesday, May 20, 2014

Open Letter to Vintage Shop Owners & Thrift Stores

Vintage shopping and thrifting seems to be all the rage at the moment.  There are TV shows about it, a hit song, and it seems to be the foundation of the hipster movement.  But at its core, there is nothing better than that feeling of accomplishment when you find a truly unique piece from your favorite era and rub your personal style all over it by incorporating it into your wardrobe or home.

Vintage Swing Dress, Bolero Jacket & Crinoline
One thing I have learned though, is not all vintage or thrift stores are created equally…or even play by the same rules.  This was never as evident to me as it was on my most recent trip to Nashville, TN. 

As normal before visiting an area I researched and mapped all the vintage stores I could find.  I read reviews on yelp and looked at photos, if available, to help me determine if the store was indeed somewhere I would like to shop.  I am partial to Mid-Century Modern furnishings & décor and 40s, 50s and early 60s style clothing so a shop specializing “boho or hippie chic” is not going to offer a lot for me.  

My hubby and I were staying in the newly revived and trendy East Nashville area, so of course that is where I started.  Seeing this area was home to a large concentration of hipsters I figured the vintage shops would be plentiful, and they were!  We were able to make a couple of days’ worth of shopping out of this trip.   We started by making several stops in smaller “vintage stores” and I have to admit that, starting out that way, I was just about turned off for the entire weekend.    I have two major pet peeves when shopping and a handful of these stores hit on them HARD!

First, I take issue with stores supplementing their inventory with new or “vintage look” items mixed in with true vintage items, much less being the majority of the inventory in a so-called vintage store.  I personally do not consider anything this side of 1990 vintage--an opinion, I know, but to me anything newer than that is just used clothes.  Several of the smaller shops I found were just glorified boutiques with the price tag to indicate so. 

I had almost given up on the idea of this being a prosperous trip when I stumbled across The Hip Zipper.  WOW!  These people not only offered a huge selection of clothing, shoes, hats and accessories, they offered a refreshing method to ensure customer retention.  Upon making a purchase (at a reasonable price) I was offered a list of vintage shops in the Nashville area AND they were mapped out for my driving convenience.  I spent a little while speaking with the girl at the counter and she offered me insight into shops I would really like.  How refreshing to find someone interested in their customers not just their own pocketbook!!!   I took the list and followed it around the city marking my favorites for my next trip.  Of course there were couple of shops I could not make it to in the matter of hours I had left in the city but will definitely get to them in the near future.  Thank you Hip Zipper for your help and support!

But back to the topic at hand...  

The PERFECT vintage store for me!!  I LOVE
all the Mid-Century kitchen goodies.
Vintage store shoppers are each as unique as the items their customers are searching for.  When entering a store I like to see the following:

  •       Good selection of vintage items.
  •       Limited retro or reproduction items and they should be  labeled as such.
  •       Atmosphere – since my heart is 40s, 50s,& 60s how about some rockabilly swing or jazz music.  NEVER hip hop or alternative.
  •       Employees who are not only happy to be there but knowledgeable and passionate 
  •       Modern looking girls or guys hiding behind the counter, with their feet kicked up playing with whatever electronic device they have available will sometimes make me do a perimeter sweep and leave. You should be selling me on a lifestyle, not just a new blouse.

Secondly, thrift shops are just that THRIFT SHOPS. I always thought they were designed to offer everyday items at reasonable prices.  I just want to remind shop owners if your store sign has the word “thrift” in the title, please do not price your items like antiques!  Occasionally having a pricey item I find ok, but everything in the store? COME ON!!!  I find it really sad when I find big chain store brand items priced higher than they would have sold for new.  As part of vintage shopping group that frequents thrift stores this is sure fire way to get your potential customers to walk out without spending a penny! 
A Vast Array of Goodies found while vintage shopping - Train Case,
This Thing (hanging lamp & table which I LOVE), Mid-Century Glasses in carrying rack,
and of course Wonder Woman glass...anything Wonder Woman makes me happy!)

A word of caution to all vintage shoppers, although most if not all vintage shops are independently owned and operated that does not mean the owner has a sense of ethics when it comes to dealing with customers. 

The ethics of a shop owner and his or her employees was evident in another Nashville favorite of mine.  Live True Vintage seemed to truly embody my beliefs about the right kind of people and the right kind of business.  The shop was VERY reasonably priced and offered room after room of clothing and home goods.  The air was filled with music from Elvis, Johnny Cash, and the Stray Cats, and a back room was set up for live music, something we were truly disappointed we couldn't be there for.  The owner shared his story with us and I realized the greedy side of vintage we witnessed in other places in Nashville was not just something I was imagining.  He told my husband and I that he had been working for another shop in town and had watched as the owner bought thrift store and estate sale items to put in his shop.  Nothing wrong there, it is after all about compiling the inventory for the customer's convenience.  But the guy would buy a $30 sofa and price it at $900 on the showroom floor.  Then he would refuse to work with the customer on the price no matter how in love with it the customer might be.  My favorite thing the Live True Vintage owner said was "I don't want to run a museum.  If I sell something and make a few bucks then I can buy more stuff to put in my store."  That, dear reader, is the heart of it all. 

Vintage life is about love and preservation of the past.  It is remembering the things that made people happy and enjoying the fruits of a day when things were built to last.  Nobody looks at a couch from 1990 and says, "Man, my grandmother had one like that and I always loved it."  So to all you vintage shop owners, I offer this bit of advice--If you want to sell something to the customer standing in front of you and have them return some day for more, make sure your business practice makes them as happy as the item they are ogling in your shop.
Image from an impromptu pinup shoot at in Nashville